Why do you blog?

by Ashley on May 16, 2012

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Those 3 little cuties are my original inspiration for blogging.  I L.O.V.E. Love to share stories about my children and all the extra-curricular activities.  It all began so that I could share in the overflowing joys of my son’s adoption.  Naturally, the sharing morphed into telling stories about our family that were outside the adoption.  I shared for a couple years on a Blogger hosted blog.  Then one day I was feeling a little low because I stay home with my children.  Like staying home doesn’t contribute enough or something. I discovered the possibility of making an income with blogging.  Tell. Me. More!

I began the process of digging in and soaking up any information I could about successful bloggers.  I created checklists to work through so that I would have no reason for failure.  Dollar signs were buzzing around my brain and I was so excited!

It didn’t take long to realize that the checklists I created were morphing me into a poser.  Wanna-be.  Fake.  Not the Biblically proverbial wife and mother that I wanted to make myself out to be.  Not.even.close.  The stress of writing to unintentionally deceive any reader I had gained creeped in and this blog- this blog that I was so excited about became a chore.  I failed even with my checklist.

I threw the checklist away.  I don’t care about the money anymore.  If I make some, awesome!  Those 3 little cuties deserve me at my best, striving to care for them not striving to make a perfect blog.  I deserve a creative outlet and I’m so happy I choose blogging.  I love blogging when I do it for me and me only.

Why do I blog?  I blog for me.

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Err… Blog Redesign Instead

by Ashley on May 1, 2012

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I waving the white flag!  I’m officially giving up!  *aaaggghhhh! … deep breath… hyperventilation stopped… smile is forming… shoulders relaxed… normal breaths*

I’m happy to make this announcement.  I have been tryyyying for many, many days to switch this blog to a new one.  The more I tried, the more I messed it up.  I’ve decided to cut my losses and continue to grow this blog, but with a twist.

I felt like I couldn’t be myself with Proverbs Living.  I felt like I needed to be someone that I wasn’t.  I aim to be genuine and true to my character.  Just so you know, I am not a living example Book of Proverbs.  Sorry to disappoint.  I’m still going to strive to live out my mission statement because that who is who I am.  I am still going to blog about faith, family, and adoption because those are things I am passionate about.  But I’m going to do it with a twist.

Proverbs Living is going to take on a whole new meaning and some of you may already have an idea of what I’m talking about.  The proverb I choose to use as my inspiration will change when I need it to.  Heck, on occasion, it may even be a proverb from THE Book of Proverbs.  It may be a Chinese Proverb.  It may be a random or funny proverb.  I can promise it will always be a reflection of me and what is going on in my brain and heart.  In turn, you will receive the true me.

So, now, I’m going to get back to working on the design of this blog.  I’m going to joyfully get back to writing because I have TRRUUULY missed that!  A lot has happened and I haven’t blogged about it. DOH!

Here’s back to blogging!  I’m so happy to be back at Proverbs Living!

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